12 prompts · no score
Questions for couples.
Questions about the small parts of a relationship: attention, teamwork, rituals, and memories.
Choose one, answer it together, and let either person pass without explaining.
- What ordinary moment with me do you quietly love?
- What would make our weeks feel less rushed?
- Which shared memory would you relive for one afternoon?
- What is one thing we do well as a team?
- What kind of date would feel refreshing right now?
- When do you feel most appreciated?
- What is a future ritual you would like us to have?
- Which difference between us has taught you something useful?
- What should we celebrate more often?
- What place would you like us to explore together?
- Which conversation brought us closer?
- What does a peaceful home feel like to you?
How to use them
Conversation, not evaluation.
Ask one question rather than racing through the full list. The useful part is often the story after the first answer.
A prompt should never be evidence in an argument. If a question feels poorly timed, skip it and choose another.
For a lighter start, use the icebreaker collection before moving into relationship questions.